The Wandering Lover's blog is all about a man's right to enjoy his cock. An advocate for penis power, TWL explores the cult of the phallus. The message: "Your dick IS a celebrity!" Let's find out more. ![]()
CELEB MASTURBATION NATION interviews THE WANDERING LOVER1.CMN: Welcome, or should we say, "well cum" to C-M-N. Your blog is a celebration of masturbation, and specifically the penis, as a thing of historic beauty, a vehicle for masculine self-expression, and even cumming as an art form. Tell us more about your penile philosophy. THE WANDERING LOVER: Thank you for inviting me to CMN. Well, I should start by saying that in my view, for too long, society has shamed men away from celebrating and honoring engorged cocks. We all secretly adore our own erections but feel like it is "wrong" or "gay" to admire another man's hard cock. Women can admire each others' bodies without being considered "lesbians" or "perverted"; so it's time for men to cast off their "cock guilt." Embrace the erect phallus as something to bond over rather than shame each other about. Stop hiding erections from each other--it's normal for men to get erect so rather than look away, just compliment your fellow men on their erections. What's the harm? Men are so worried about being seen as "gay" and that needs to change. Besides, there shouldn't be anything wrong being being seen as "gay" or "bisexual." ![]()
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I just want men to relax, and know it's OK to be curious about other men's cocks and how they look when erect. We often go to the gym together to work out our muscles, and can admire each other's physique without feeling "gay" or ashamed. So, what's the difference in admiring the main muscle of manhood, our cocks? I am on a mission to unite men once again over their mighty cocks. 2.CMN: When did you start your blog, and what made you decide to share your passion? THE WANDERING LOVER: Let's see...I started the blog in 2007 but I had similar blogs before this one. I wanted to share my passion because nothing makes sexual desire better than sharing it!! Plus, I like meeting others like myself who are proud of their sexual energy and enjoy sharing stories, likes and dislikes. I think sexuality has the power to unite people and bring about healing to people who feel lost in the modern world. Those who feel like they have lost touch with what it means to be "human." Human sexual expression is emotionally grounding and reminds us of our human essence. It is a natural stress reliever and so anything I can do to spread the message of stress reduction from sexuality, makes me happy. ![]()
3.CMN: Do you think the cock, and man's ability – and his right - to generate and ejaculate his manly essence, are properly appreciated in today's society – as opposed to, say, the woman's movement that advocates a woman's right to her vagina?THE WANDERING LOVER: No. I think while the woman's movement happily freed women to embrace their vaginas and masturbation, the cock continues to be seen as "taboo." For example, in movies they'll happily show a woman's naked breasts and sometimes pussy but never an erection. And certainly never a cum shot. Yet cumming is as natural as breathing!! Again, I think it starts with men. We need to embrace the cock for the awesome tool it is!! If men can't appreciate each other's cocks then we have little chance of changing society's views on it. It starts with us, men. Don't be afraid to tell your buddy how much cum you squirted last night. ![]()
It should be something we celebrate!! We brag about how far we shot our cum across a girl we fucked last night but never about our cum shots when we are alone. Masturbation in general needs to be freed from the prison of controlling religions. It's ironic, because ancient religions that were around well before Christianity and such, did put the erect phallus and its generative powers at the base of civilization. Statues were made and put in public places, and why would they have done so? We have statues of naked men in museums, but somehow putting one in a public park is "perverted?" We need to stop being ashamed of the naked body in general. 4. CMN: Why do you think that cum is still 'taboo' as a subject in certain discussions, even though it is after all, the fluid of life? ![]()
THE WANDERING LOVER: I think cum is still seen as "taboo" because it's so visual. Just like an erection--ejaculating is a very outward expression of sexuality. So, people who are afraid of sexuality in general probably see ejaculating as the ultimate exposition of sexuality. It's like nude beaches, you can expose your cock, but not if it's erect. Why? Well, a lot of people still are ashamed and afraid of a throbbing erection. It's too "animalistic" for them. A lot of humans think sexuality is almost shameful--something only to be done for pro-creation because our sexual lust is somehow not "civilized." It's too primal for them--like animals strutting about naked. So, to them, being "ok" with cum shots is difficult because they have to admit that we are all animals despite our intelligence. I think it all comes back to society's fear of sexuality in general--except for maybe some places in Europe and the U.S. 5. CMN: As you are a person who enjoys sex with both women and men, describe for us the difference in the celebration of your penis by yourself, and when you are with partners of different genders. Say for example, man-to-woman, man with more than one woman, more than one man with a woman, and man-to-man.Well, I think that cock-to-cock sexual expression between guys is much less complicated than sex between men and women. Simply because men and women often have very different preferences for what turns them on or arouses them sexually. Guys usually have similar preferences when it comes to pleasing their cocks, so right away you have that common understanding--it makes for some hot experiences because you both know just the right buttons to push to achieve the highest form of sexual desire. I love them both--sex with men and women--because there are sexy attributes to both encounters. ![]()
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6. CMN: Do you consider yourself a swinger? Have you ever had sex in a large group, either virtually or physically? Um, I use to be a swinger with my wife but we haven't done anything with other couples in quite a few years. Though I do a lot of exploring online with guys and girls. She's fine if I masturbate online with others through emails or chat because it's not "real sex." It's a fantasy and less about meeting up with someone. Plus, it's less about the emotional side of sex than the physical expression. The most people I've had sex with was four. It was pretty hot to have so much horny genitals swinging around in my face!! Hehe... 7. CMN: Are you turned on by sex symbols, for examples, celebrities, models or pornstars? Who? Why/why not? Absolutely!! When it comes to women, I am drawn to the "bimbo" type sex symbols, porn stars and celebs. Mostly because when I want to fantasize about a woman, I want her to be quite opposite of the male physique. So, that's why I like big boobs, curves, girly lingerie and slutty outfits.![]()
My favorite female sex symbols are often blonde, too. For example, porn stars Briana Banks (IMAGE DIRECTLY BELOW) and Danielle Derek (IMAGE AT BOTTOM). ![]()
In regards to celebrities, I think, the fantasy is about sex with someone who is out of reach for most of us. As for men, I like men who are very male...mostly, big muscles and big cocks. I prefer thick cocks to long ones though. ![]()
Though, sometimes, I like men who are very effeminate and aren't afraid to wear non-stereotypical clothes. It's so hot to see a guy wearing nothing but a pounding, hard, erection and thigh-high lace stockings. The stockings outline their curvy leg muscles and the combination of the very masculine cock and feminine stockings represent what I like in men...strong men but not afraid of their feminine side. I don't know why so many are afraid of wearing "girly" stuff. It's just clothing and if it's something we find sexy then go for it!! Some men like women wearing their boxers and underwear, so go for it!! 8. CMN: Do you think cybersex is replacing physical sex?THE WANDERING LOVER: No, I don't but it's been a great way for people to expand their sexual exploration in a safe way. It's a great way, too, for couples to sexually explore outside their marriage without having to expose their identity too much to the world. 9. CMN: In different cultures, such as India and Asia, the phallus is honored with monuments and shrines. For example, the Kama Sutra facades in India, the Sex Temple in Shinjuku, Tokyo. African art honors the phallus as well. But in Europe and especially North America, society seems to be ashamed of the penis – even though the Greeks, Romans and other ancient European tribes were not. What is your view on this?THE WANDERING LOVER: I couldn't agree more. Modern, western, civilization is still in somewhat of a "childish" stage when it comes to the erect phallus. They see it as "gross" or "profane." I think a lot of it stems from Judeo-Christian-Islamic traditions that have heavily imprinted sexual repression upon western society. It seems that Christianity often teaches that sexuality is a "necessary evil." That sexual lust isn't divine but borderline "Satanic." How can a perfect "God" have created us with these gorgeous sex organs and a desire for them, but then say that to give in to their powerful demands, is to give in to evil temptations? I think Christianity has done a lot to retard the western view of the erect cock. I'm glad though, to see some neo-Christian blogs online, that restore sexuality to its rightful place. Especially allowing the phallus to be seen as a truly divine object to be worshipped, treasured, appreciated and admired. It's a gift--not a curse!! ![]()
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As examples of how Mankind has, and should celebrate the penis, I've provided some images of cock monuments from around the globe. (SEEN ABOVE) The first image is of the 'cock fountain', in Amsterdam. Second, a phallus shrine in Uwajima, Japan. Third, which is the tall, sleek, phallic, statue in a field is called The Kharkhorin Rock in Mongolia. Fourth, we have a double-headed dildo dating back to 10th-13th century China. 10. CMN: Finally, what do you think of the fetish for cumpics - masturbating on photos and doing masturbation videos? THE WANDERING LOVER: I think "cumpics" are great!! They are a creative outlet for sexual fantasies. I do a few of my own and I'll share one with you and your readers. It's my cum splash on a picture of porn star bimbo, Danielle Derek. I hope you enjoy it!! ![]()
CMN: TWL, thanks so much for taking the time for this interview and sharing your exciting thoughts.THE WANDERING LOVER: It's my pleasure! And I want to invite all of the readers of CELEB MASTURBATION NATION to visit my blog. Please feel free to ask me any questions about sex!! I enjoy it as always...keep those cocks hard, boys, and squirting that joy juice!! Whether you're gay, straight, bi, or bi-curious. It doesn't matter, so long as you enjoy your cock!! ![]()
THE WANDERING LOVER is at: http://hornyside.blogspot.com/ (Click the link or cut/paste the address in your browser). Have fun with cock and cum!
I just want men to relax, and know it's OK to be curious about other men's cocks and how they look when erect. We often go to the gym together to work out our muscles, and can admire each other's physique without feeling "gay" or ashamed. So, what's the difference in admiring the main muscle of manhood, our cocks? I am on a mission to unite men once again over their mighty cocks. 2.CMN: When did you start your blog, and what made you decide to share your passion? THE WANDERING LOVER: Let's see...I started the blog in 2007 but I had similar blogs before this one. I wanted to share my passion because nothing makes sexual desire better than sharing it!! Plus, I like meeting others like myself who are proud of their sexual energy and enjoy sharing stories, likes and dislikes. I think sexuality has the power to unite people and bring about healing to people who feel lost in the modern world. Those who feel like they have lost touch with what it means to be "human." Human sexual expression is emotionally grounding and reminds us of our human essence. It is a natural stress reliever and so anything I can do to spread the message of stress reduction from sexuality, makes me happy. 
3.CMN: Do you think the cock, and man's ability – and his right - to generate and ejaculate his manly essence, are properly appreciated in today's society – as opposed to, say, the woman's movement that advocates a woman's right to her vagina?THE WANDERING LOVER: No. I think while the woman's movement happily freed women to embrace their vaginas and masturbation, the cock continues to be seen as "taboo." For example, in movies they'll happily show a woman's naked breasts and sometimes pussy but never an erection. And certainly never a cum shot. Yet cumming is as natural as breathing!! Again, I think it starts with men. We need to embrace the cock for the awesome tool it is!! If men can't appreciate each other's cocks then we have little chance of changing society's views on it. It starts with us, men. Don't be afraid to tell your buddy how much cum you squirted last night. 
It should be something we celebrate!! We brag about how far we shot our cum across a girl we fucked last night but never about our cum shots when we are alone. Masturbation in general needs to be freed from the prison of controlling religions. It's ironic, because ancient religions that were around well before Christianity and such, did put the erect phallus and its generative powers at the base of civilization. Statues were made and put in public places, and why would they have done so? We have statues of naked men in museums, but somehow putting one in a public park is "perverted?" We need to stop being ashamed of the naked body in general. 4. CMN: Why do you think that cum is still 'taboo' as a subject in certain discussions, even though it is after all, the fluid of life? 
THE WANDERING LOVER: I think cum is still seen as "taboo" because it's so visual. Just like an erection--ejaculating is a very outward expression of sexuality. So, people who are afraid of sexuality in general probably see ejaculating as the ultimate exposition of sexuality. It's like nude beaches, you can expose your cock, but not if it's erect. Why? Well, a lot of people still are ashamed and afraid of a throbbing erection. It's too "animalistic" for them. A lot of humans think sexuality is almost shameful--something only to be done for pro-creation because our sexual lust is somehow not "civilized." It's too primal for them--like animals strutting about naked. So, to them, being "ok" with cum shots is difficult because they have to admit that we are all animals despite our intelligence. I think it all comes back to society's fear of sexuality in general--except for maybe some places in Europe and the U.S. 5. CMN: As you are a person who enjoys sex with both women and men, describe for us the difference in the celebration of your penis by yourself, and when you are with partners of different genders. Say for example, man-to-woman, man with more than one woman, more than one man with a woman, and man-to-man.Well, I think that cock-to-cock sexual expression between guys is much less complicated than sex between men and women. Simply because men and women often have very different preferences for what turns them on or arouses them sexually. Guys usually have similar preferences when it comes to pleasing their cocks, so right away you have that common understanding--it makes for some hot experiences because you both know just the right buttons to push to achieve the highest form of sexual desire. I love them both--sex with men and women--because there are sexy attributes to both encounters. 
6. CMN: Do you consider yourself a swinger? Have you ever had sex in a large group, either virtually or physically? Um, I use to be a swinger with my wife but we haven't done anything with other couples in quite a few years. Though I do a lot of exploring online with guys and girls. She's fine if I masturbate online with others through emails or chat because it's not "real sex." It's a fantasy and less about meeting up with someone. Plus, it's less about the emotional side of sex than the physical expression. The most people I've had sex with was four. It was pretty hot to have so much horny genitals swinging around in my face!! Hehe... 7. CMN: Are you turned on by sex symbols, for examples, celebrities, models or pornstars? Who? Why/why not? Absolutely!! When it comes to women, I am drawn to the "bimbo" type sex symbols, porn stars and celebs. Mostly because when I want to fantasize about a woman, I want her to be quite opposite of the male physique. So, that's why I like big boobs, curves, girly lingerie and slutty outfits.
My favorite female sex symbols are often blonde, too. For example, porn stars Briana Banks (IMAGE DIRECTLY BELOW) and Danielle Derek (IMAGE AT BOTTOM). 
In regards to celebrities, I think, the fantasy is about sex with someone who is out of reach for most of us. As for men, I like men who are very male...mostly, big muscles and big cocks. I prefer thick cocks to long ones though. 
Though, sometimes, I like men who are very effeminate and aren't afraid to wear non-stereotypical clothes. It's so hot to see a guy wearing nothing but a pounding, hard, erection and thigh-high lace stockings. The stockings outline their curvy leg muscles and the combination of the very masculine cock and feminine stockings represent what I like in men...strong men but not afraid of their feminine side. I don't know why so many are afraid of wearing "girly" stuff. It's just clothing and if it's something we find sexy then go for it!! Some men like women wearing their boxers and underwear, so go for it!! 8. CMN: Do you think cybersex is replacing physical sex?THE WANDERING LOVER: No, I don't but it's been a great way for people to expand their sexual exploration in a safe way. It's a great way, too, for couples to sexually explore outside their marriage without having to expose their identity too much to the world. 9. CMN: In different cultures, such as India and Asia, the phallus is honored with monuments and shrines. For example, the Kama Sutra facades in India, the Sex Temple in Shinjuku, Tokyo. African art honors the phallus as well. But in Europe and especially North America, society seems to be ashamed of the penis – even though the Greeks, Romans and other ancient European tribes were not. What is your view on this?THE WANDERING LOVER: I couldn't agree more. Modern, western, civilization is still in somewhat of a "childish" stage when it comes to the erect phallus. They see it as "gross" or "profane." I think a lot of it stems from Judeo-Christian-Islamic traditions that have heavily imprinted sexual repression upon western society. It seems that Christianity often teaches that sexuality is a "necessary evil." That sexual lust isn't divine but borderline "Satanic." How can a perfect "God" have created us with these gorgeous sex organs and a desire for them, but then say that to give in to their powerful demands, is to give in to evil temptations? I think Christianity has done a lot to retard the western view of the erect cock. I'm glad though, to see some neo-Christian blogs online, that restore sexuality to its rightful place. Especially allowing the phallus to be seen as a truly divine object to be worshipped, treasured, appreciated and admired. It's a gift--not a curse!! 
As examples of how Mankind has, and should celebrate the penis, I've provided some images of cock monuments from around the globe. (SEEN ABOVE) The first image is of the 'cock fountain', in Amsterdam. Second, a phallus shrine in Uwajima, Japan. Third, which is the tall, sleek, phallic, statue in a field is called The Kharkhorin Rock in Mongolia. Fourth, we have a double-headed dildo dating back to 10th-13th century China. 10. CMN: Finally, what do you think of the fetish for cumpics - masturbating on photos and doing masturbation videos? THE WANDERING LOVER: I think "cumpics" are great!! They are a creative outlet for sexual fantasies. I do a few of my own and I'll share one with you and your readers. It's my cum splash on a picture of porn star bimbo, Danielle Derek. I hope you enjoy it!! 
CMN: TWL, thanks so much for taking the time for this interview and sharing your exciting thoughts.THE WANDERING LOVER: It's my pleasure! And I want to invite all of the readers of CELEB MASTURBATION NATION to visit my blog. Please feel free to ask me any questions about sex!! I enjoy it as always...keep those cocks hard, boys, and squirting that joy juice!! Whether you're gay, straight, bi, or bi-curious. It doesn't matter, so long as you enjoy your cock!! 